Comments on: Baby blues

By: Sue

Sue — Wed, 09 Nov 2016 02:13:06 +0000

Amy- thank you so much for posting this and your blog in People. I just read it and I cried because you are one of the first people to put into words how I’ve been feeling. My daughter is 10 weeks and I can’t believe how fast it has gone. I also dealt with the conflicting emotions of missing being pregnant while also being overjoyed that she was here. I loved being pregnant and my baby came at 39 weeks, which also made me feel cheated out of a full term pregnancy. I would try to explain to my husband that although I love having her here, I also miss being pregnant. I felt strange bc my baby blues weren’t presenting in the traditional manner; I felt completely attached to my daughter and not overwhelmed at all. I just wished my pregnancy had gone by slower and now I wish the first 10 weeks of her life had gone by slower. I feel so sad thinking that she won’t always be this cuddly baby. As others mentioned I’m keeping a journal and taking lots of pics and videos. Also my husband set up an email account for her and we gave it to our friends and family so they can email her for her to read later.

By: Sam

Sam — Wed, 09 Nov 2016 01:11:55 +0000

Reading this was like reading my own mind. My 7.5 month old never wants to snuggle anymore, sleeps terribly the last 2 months, and always wants to be on the move. He never wants to be in the car or my arms. But he is also so much fun – discovering so much and becoming so independent in a good way. And I cherish that at nighttime he does snuggle before bed. And that he only wants me to put him to sleep. In watching friends with older babies I can see that there is a light ahead of time where I can sit outside with a coffee while he plays in the yard with the dogs, and where independence comes back to mama too. And as much as it’s hard to miss the newborn stage, there is something nice in knowing that his independence will lead to mama independence too. And watching him thrive and speak and be able to say I love you. Hang in there mama – you are doing amazing.

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By: Jackie Roberts

Jackie Roberts — Sat, 08 Oct 2016 23:39:19 +0000

Amy
It’s jackie (yoga,real estate, Ballys gym…) I had my boy… And he’s two months and it feels like its flying by. I totally get the blues that he’s gonna grow up but I try not to miss a moment and document and talk about it with my family. Let’s get together if you have a minute… For a hike or tea or park date (818)568-7220

By: Dawn Bryan

Dawn Bryan — Sat, 08 Oct 2016 19:16:44 +0000

Gah baby blues indeed! My eldest baby, a boy, Lewis, is now coming up for 26 years old! My youngest, a girl, Jessie, is 23! It has passed in the blink of an eye. I sometimes wish it would slow down at least! ? However, it's lovely when you see them being successful adults. ?

By: Kendra

Kendra — Sat, 08 Oct 2016 03:55:59 +0000

I now have a 3 year old daughter and a 3 month old son. I felt what you are feeling when my daughter started to become more engaging in the world and not just this cuddly infant who didn’t squirm away all the time. However I found that when the milestones of her running into my arms for hugs, calling me mommy, holding my hand for walks, reading stories before bedtime, giving me kisses and just overall being the sweetheart she is really helped me get through those blues slowly and embrace this new chapter she’s begun. My big advice though is when he wants cuddles just sit down and take in that moment or if they have a bad night and want to lay with you in your bed, do it. I really cherished those small moments and each one brings you that much closer to your baby and remember , no matter their age they are always your little baby in your heart.

By: Vanessa

Vanessa — Sat, 08 Oct 2016 00:36:37 +0000

Hi Amy, thanks for sharing! I love seeing pictures of your beautiful son.

I wish I could say that these growing up blues get easier, but from my personal experience, it doesn’t. I am currently experiencing similar blues. My eldest daughter turned 10 thist past May, and I must admit, it was so much harder to deal with and accept than I ever imagined it would be. How could my baby girl have turned 10?! I wish I could slow down the hands of time a bit. My daughter will start middle school next year, and it is something I am truly trying my hardest not to think about. My youngest began first grade this year. How is that possible when it feels like only yesterday she made our family a party of four. I wish I could offer solace, but it is comforting to read about someone else’s struggle with growing pains. The best and most we can do is love our children with every fiber of our being and make sure their smiles never fade, and even when the moment might come along when getting snuggles might not be on their radar, it’s our job to grab them and hold them even tighter so they may always know the warmth, security, and true love from us will always be there waiting for them with open arms. Enjoy every minute with your prince! Embrace the blues for they validate your undying love for your son. Best of luck!

By: Charlotte

Charlotte — Fri, 07 Oct 2016 21:58:32 +0000

I think I know exactly how you feel! My son is 5 months and I can’t even comprehend how quickly the time has gone.

He’s becoming such a character and seems to learn something new every single day! He is awake much more then he is asleep. I spend so long trying to get him to sleep (must be harder then any game or puzzle, try and get the tired baby to sleep!) and then when he is asleep I miss him so much!

Much love! It’s lovely knowing others are on the same journey, whoever and wherever you are.

By: Jessica

Jessica — Fri, 07 Oct 2016 20:57:37 +0000

Mine are 10, 8 & 5. Right now I’m feeling most blue about my 10 year old. He has always been my buddy. I’ve always been a tomboy so we’ve always connected. Lately, I feel it’s a lot more discipline. Trying to keep him on track at school & dealing with pre-teen hormones has not been fun. I miss my buddy. I know this is part of the job & it will get better, but I totally feel your blues.

By: Brittany Cunningham

Brittany Cunningham — Fri, 07 Oct 2016 20:43:35 +0000

My son is about to turn 9 months old. I feel the exact same way about my little baby growing up. It still feels like yesterday I held him for the first time. In the first weeks of him being born, he wouldn’t sleep unless he was in my arms. At the time I was overtired and would give anything to have him sleep in his bassinet. Now a days I can barely even get him to snuggle longer than a minute. My son is the most independent baby I have ever met and sometimes it drives me crazy but at the same time it’s awesome knowing he’s so smart. Don’t be sad momma! They grow way too fast, but we just need to cherish every single moment we have with them. My advice would be to keep a journal and to take as many pictures and videos as you can. I record random videos of my son smiling, laughing, crying, playing, babbling, anything. It might seem a bit much but I have a detailed journal. When my little one naps I like to jot down some notes on where he’s at in his life, what he did that day, things that have changed, just to keep track. This way you’ll have something to look back on. Lennox is such an adorable baby and he seems very happy, which must be because of how great his momma is!